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The Philosopher's Stone for a Modern Anxious Mind: The Dichotomy of Control
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The Philosopher's Stone for a Modern Anxious Mind: The Dichotomy of Control

Baran
Baran
July 11, 2025 • 2 min read

One of the most profound ideas I encountered during my undergrad philosophy studies came from the Stoics. I was fascinated by Epictetus and the simple power of his worldview.

But wisdom, it seems, is easier to study than to practice.

Years later, while writing my Master's thesis, I found myself completely overwhelmed. I was unhealthy, unmotivated, and stuck. It was in that moment of struggle that the wisdom of Epictetus came back to me, not as an academic concept, but as a practical lifeline. I realized I was living in complete opposition to the very principles I had once admired.

My anxiety didn't come from my actions; it came from my obsession with outcomes I couldn't command. "Will this project succeed?" "What will they think of me?" "Why aren't my results showing yet?"

  • Epictetus, whose work I had studied, laid it out with stark clarity: "Some things are in our control and others not. Things in our control are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion, and, in a word, whatever are our own actions. Things not in our control are body, property, reputation, command, and, in one word, whatever are not our own actions." (Enchiridion, 1.1)

All my feelings of failure stemmed from judging myself based on these external results. True peace—and paradoxically, true progress—began the moment I started judging myself based on my own deliberate efforts.

The Habits Warrior Bridge:

This entire philosophy is the intellectual foundation of Habits Warrior. I built it for the person I was in that moment of struggle—anxious, overwhelmed, and focused on the wrong things.

I needed a tool that was a sanctuary of personal control. The app doesn't reward you for outcomes. It rewards you for effort. When you set a habit and link it to a personal stat, the only thing that matters is whether you took the action.

The +1 you see on your Wisdom stat isn't a vanity metric; it is a tangible representation of your focused effort. It is a digital embodiment of the Dichotomy of Control, constantly reminding you to focus your energy on the only battlefield where you are the sovereign: your own choices.

Sources:

  • Epictetus. Enchiridion. (Various translations are available. The citation 1.1 refers to the first chapter, first verse, a standard notation for this work).